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The Art of Gratitude

By June 16th, 2008 Self Persuasion, Social Persuasion 4 Comments

It is necessary, then, to cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you, and to give thanks continuously. And because all things have contributed to your advancement, you should include all things in your gratitude.” -Wallace D. Wattles,The Science of Getting Rich or Financial Success Through Creative Thought

Hi Persuader,

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity…. It turns problems into gifts, failures into success, the unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.” -Melodie Beattie

Why is gratitude important? When we are grateful for what we have, we draw more things to us to be grateful for.

I mention gratitude at the end of each of my Persuasion Factor calls and my Elite Coaching Club because gratitude should be our constant companion not just a Thanksgiving Day foot note or brief prayer on Sunday. It should permeate all of our interactions.

Experiencing gratitude does not have to be limited to when someone gives you a gift or does you a favor. True gratitude is about looking deeply at our lives and understanding how truly lucky we are to be alive at this moment in time.

I think on this every night and every day. I have a huge list of things to be grateful for, as do all of us: family, friends, colleagues, students, employees, health, financial success, future successes and advancements. I am grateful when it rains (and here in the Pacific Northwest it rains a lot) because I know that’s part of why the area is so lush and fruitful. I am grateful when the sun comes out (because, as I mentioned above, here in the Pacific Northwest it rains A LOT).

I’m grateful for simple things and complicated things. And throughout my day, I stop to consider other people’s situations, whether they be more challenging or easier than mine, and I am grateful for the struggles I’ve had to endure, and grateful for the things I accomplish with ease, both, because these are the things that have made me what I am and brought me to this point in life.

Gratitude can be powerful especially if something about our life is not quite right. For instance, if your health is not as good as it could be, instead of cursing our bodies for what they are not, try being grateful for what you can do.

There’s an old Irish proverb that says, ‘Count your joys instead of your woes; count your friends instead of your foes.’ I love this. It’s all in where we place our focus. It’s all in what we choose to highlight and what we choose to minimize.

When you begin to take notice of all that is good in your life, this gratitude will turn your life around.

Until Next Time,

Kenrick E. Cleveland

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4 Comments

  1. June 17th, 2008

    GREAT article.

    ABSOLUTELY true!

    Thanks for posting this article on Gratitude!

    Jack.

  2. June 17th, 2008

    Thanks.

    It brings me back from trailing off the gratitude rail in the midst of suffering.

    I appreciate it Kenrick.

    Sincerely,
    Seth Chong

  3. Gail
    June 19th, 2008

    Thanks, Kenrick, for reminding us of this.

    btw, the entire text of the Wattles book and Charles Haanel’s incredible book, The Master Key System-a training, really, as it was actually first offered by Haanel as a correspondence course-are available free for the having on The Secret website: http://www.thesecret.tv You do have to sign up, but it’s free.

    Cheers!

  4. June 19th, 2008

    Kendrick,
    Great reminder, we are constantly practicing gratefulness for all that has been bestowed on us and our business. Since insituting “The Secret” our web site has taken off.
    Thanks for the post!

    Matt
    http://www.PositivelyMary.com

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